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Film making – I started learning Final Cut Pro a few months ago through Lynda.com. Here is a short film I made this week:
Story of the Mexican Fisherman 

An American investment banker was at the pier of a small coastal Mexican village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large yellowfin tuna. The American complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took to catch them. The Mexican replied, “only a little while. The American then asked why didn’t he stay out longer and catch more fish? The Mexican said he had enough to support his family’s immediate needs. The American then asked, “but what do you do with the rest of your time?”

The Mexican fisherman said, “I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take siestas with my wife, Maria, stroll into the village each evening where I sip wine, and play guitar with my amigos. I have a full and busy life.” The American scoffed, “I am a Harvard MBA and could help you. You should spend more time fishing and with the proceeds, buy a bigger boat. With the proceeds from the bigger boat, you could buy several boats, eventually you would have a fleet of fishing boats. Instead of selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the processor, eventually opening your own cannery. You would control the product, processing, and distribution. You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then LA and eventually New York City, where you will run your expanding enterprise.”

The Mexican fisherman asked, “But, how long will this all take?”

To which the American replied, “15 – 20 years.”

“But what then?” Asked the Mexican.

The American laughed and said, “That’s the best part. When the time is right you would announce an IPO and sell your company stock to the public and become very rich, you would make millions!”

“Millions – then what?”

The American said, “Then you would retire. Move to a small coastal fishing village where you would sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take siestas with your wife, stroll to the village in the evenings where you could sip wine and play your guitar with your amigos.”

Per diem
A newsletter I get from ICT works featured a write-up about ways to stop paying per diem.

I never heard of a per diem before coming to Benin. In short time I learned that if you want to organize a training or hold a meeting with adults, you were expected to dish out per diems (normally $2 to $10 per person/day). People typically expect that their is some behind-the-scenes budget that had a line for these per diems. In their defense, this is often the case. In my case though, almost never. Just me trying to exchange and share some knowledge. Not respecting the per diem expectation can create suspicious feelings. People attending the training/meeting may think you stole all their per diem or that the training isn’t “serious”. With government workers and the NGO types, people may be offended or mad because they consider per diems legitimate allowances. You on the other hand suspect that everyone came just to pocket the per diem and they could care less what you’re talking about.

It’s interesting to see other people reflecting on ways to stop paying per diem, particularly now that I’m on the other side and get giant per diem when I travel. Perhaps US government employees should take the lead and stop paying themselves per diem?


Listening to:
  1. Dan Carlin – Death Throes of the Republic Series
  2. Chris Sacca on Shark Tank, Building Your Business, and Startup Mistakes 
    I liked his thoughts on myopia and empathy at around 30 min
  3. Jay Larson – Wrong Number
  4. Intelligence Squared – The US should let in 100,000 Syrian Refugees

Links I liked:

 

Roasted

Normally, I feel like Calvin when I eat what I cook.

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The key to improving cooking skills: raise the stakes. I invited my colleague and his cousin over for a Sunday lunch. Equipped with a recipe for roasted chicken from my dad (the first time I’ve ever used a recipe he sent me), lunch was a success. It was the first time I’ve tried roasting anything. It won’t be the last.

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I started reading However Long the Night: Molly Melching’s Journey to Help Millions of African Women and Girls Triumph. I never heard of Molly Meltching before last week, but a short reference to the book and a quick google search of her name convinced me to buy it. So far, I know Melching played a pivotal role in ending female genital mutilation in parts of Senegal. The book started off slow, but the rhythm and flow picks up after the first chapter.

Lines I liked:
-What was the point of taking up space in the world if you weren’t going to do it with zest?
-After all, if you can’t control the world and make it perfect, if you have to live with all that is irrational and inevitable about life, if you have to endure war, poverty and depression, you could at least construct the perfect living room
-Most people I grew up around were seeking out that which was familiar. i was always attract to things that were different
-In the evenings, after the empty dinner plates had been cleared from the tables, with his hands shaky from too many cigarettes and a past he couldn’t forget, he spent hours answering molly’s questions about this painful time in his life
-“This was my first lesson in understanding the best way to really help others,” Molly recalls. ” people have to be listened to, involved, and engaged from the very beginning.”
-Inside, the air was thick with smoke and possibility
-She’s come to feel that her mother’s desire to mold her in a certain, specific way was like trying to mold a piece of wet soap in your hands. Try as you might, the soap can’t take the pressure; eventually it slips and falls away
-“Looking back, I’m not sure how I convinced the university to allow me to stay,” she says. “I just kept showing up at the offices saying, “i can’t leave. I’m here. We need to make this work.”
-Seeing a bare bottom at the beginning of the day brings bad luck all day long
-“What do people do for fun?” she’d ask. “is it hard to live without electricity? What’s the food like?” You should just come see for yourself,” Ndey suggested one afternoon. -“Come home with me for Tabaski.”
-Is it ok for us to spend the night with a family no one knows?” Molly whispered to Ndey, as she followed the others. “of course. This is Africa, Molly! People help each other out when they’re in need. You will better understand this the more time you spend here. Who knows? One day we may help out one of her children.
-Everyone was committed to making her feel comfortable.
-I’m against it, but the tradition is stronger than my will
-The way you dress in American reflects your individuality and how you feel about yourself, Carrie explained. The way you dress here reflects how you feel about others.

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